It is hard to believe Jake has only a week left in the 2nd grade! In some ways it feels like this school year has been long but mostly it feels like it flew by.
Jake has an amazing teacher and advancing to 3rd grade is very bittersweet! The first day we met Mrs. Hansen, Jake was drawn to her and responded to her quickly. She wasn’t all gushy and sweet and over-the-top nice. That sounds a little strange, but Jake doesn’t need that or want that all the time especially meeting someone for the first time. She was extremely nice and kind but her tone let Jake know she was his teacher and he would follow her rules. He quickly fell in love with her; wanting to make her proud and to show her he could do anything she asked of him. Jake had some rough days but overall he has absolutely loved being in her classroom and told me just a couple of nights ago that he wanted Mrs. Hansen to be his teacher forever. That says something about a teacher when you’re child doesn’t want to leave their classroom.
One of the things I love the most about Jake’s teacher is she not only teaches the required subjects but also teaches respect for others, kindness and the inclusion of others. And in return, from what I’ve seen when I’ve been in the classroom, the kids show her as well as their classmate’s kindness, respect and are always including each other in different activities. As a mom of a child who is autistic this means so much! I know this is only 2nd grade but this is where and when our kids learn this stuff and hopefully take that with them as they go through life. Jake has always been welcomed and cheered on and made to feel important by his peers. Even when Jake is having a rough time I have heard encouragement from his friends trying to help him get back on track.
Jake loves being a part of his classroom and doing what the other kids are doing as well! Last week the 2nd graders had their spring musical where they had to dress up as a classic storybook character. We chose Tom Sawyer. At first, Jake wasn’t sure about this as he isn’t a fan of wearing anything except his normal clothes. But he wanted to do it! He asked me several times if he wore his costume would he would still be Jake? He wanted to make sure people wouldn’t forget he was Jake; this made me smile! He wore his costume with pride and I have to say he was such a cute Tom Sawyer!! He put aside his anxiety and for this kid, that is HUGE!!
The progress we’ve seen with Jake this year has been fantastic! He has learned to speak up for himself, he’s become much more independent and able to initiate small conversations with us at home. One of the best things I’ve personally seen is his ability to carry information that he has learned during the school day over to home. Most of the time what he learns at school, stays at school. And what he learns at home, stays at home. But I’m seeing that he is able to make the connection now and do the things he is able to do at school at home and vice versa. He will also remember things Mrs. Hansen wants him to tell me and many times he will make me repeat to him what he said so he knows I get it (something we do with him all the time). Jake is also learning to be proud of himself and his accomplishments. He may have always been proud but hearing him verbalize it is so cool! Recently we were talking and I asked him “Who is proud of you?” and he said “Mommy, Daddy, Sissy and Mrs. Hansen!” I asked him “Who else is proud of Jake?” He thought for a moment and said with a huge smile “I’m proud of Jake! I am proud of me!”